Hey there and welcome back to the Profitable Web Designer Podcast!
This week on the show I’m bringing you my monthly income report where I break down what happened behind the scenes of my business, how much money we made, how much we spent, and the lessons learned along the way.
If you’re new to the show, you might be wondering why I do a monthly income report on a podcast that’s for web designers when I actually don’t work with web design clients anymore because I run the Web Designer Academy full-time…
So just to give you a little backstory, back in 2018 when I quit my 6-figure day job to go full time in my web design business, I started a different podcast called Pep Talks for Side Hustlers, and I did monthly income reports on that show to let people see what it really looked like to run an online business, and I shared how much money I was making from my web design clients, how much came from courses and trainings I made, and how much came from affiliate marketing because at the time not only was I working with one on one web design clients, I also had a free course that taught WordPress in depth to DIYers, and I earned affiliate commissions off the backend when people bought the hosting, tools and resources I used and recommended.
I published those income reports because I was really inspired by the transparency of people like Pat Flynn from the Smart Passive Income – because back then, lot of bloggers were publishing income reports, but not many people were sharing the expense side, like, the costs of running a business and how they paid themselves and what they did with the money – and Pat Flynn was doing that, but dude was making millions of dollars, and I thought, well, I’m making thousands of dollars, I can probably fill a gap for showing what it’s like at this stage of business.
And not only that, it really, really helped me to write the income reports each month, and not just to look at my numbers, but to slow down, look at what happened and process the lessons vs. being on autopilot.
Pep Talks for Side Hustlers is still out there, by the way, and you can listen all the way back to 2018 and follow my journey from just quitting my day job all the way to making $500,000 in one year in 2021…
And then at the end of 2021, I made the decision to wind down the DIYer training side of my business and go all in coaching women web designers inside the Web Designer Academy. I’d started the Web Designer Academy back in 2016 almost accidentally, and on the one side of my business I was trying to be the next Amy Porterfield of tech, teaching the tech and strategy side of online marketing to online business owners, and that was such a grind… but the Web Designer Academy was always the part of my business that felt so fun and easy, that I had so much passion for, and just like when I quit my day job, I was like, if I had more time and resources to put into THIS, I know I could have a bigger impact than what I’m doing right now, spreading myself so thin between these different businesses.
So when I wound down that side of my business, I also stopped the podcast, and stopped doing income reports… And stopped looking at the money monthly, and stopped slowing down to see the lessons.
But I love podcasting, and decided to start this podcast in September of 2022 just for web designers, and I’d thought about doing income reports again, but I was like – how is that even relevant to a freelance web designer when I make my money in a completely different way?
And all the while, I’d hear from new Web Designer Academy students – I loved those income reports you used to do on your old podcast, it helped me so much, and I’d hear that over and over again, yet still I had this thought that it’s not relevant, my business looks so different today, blah blah blah.
And then I had like, the most challenging year in my business ever in 2023, not just financially challenging, I mean, I think it was even harder on me mentally and emotionally than the transition from day job to self-employed (which was supposed to be all this joy and freedom, but it came with a huge side of anxiety for me that I managed by overworking… but that’s a story for another time).
I didn’t realize it at the time… but in hindsight I think I had a lot of shame about things I’d done to contribute to my challenges in 2023, I mean, not all of it was in my control, but a lot of it was, but the more things started to “go wrong” the less open I was…
But still, I kept hearing from people how much my income reports had helped them, and the women in my mastermind group mentioned that I used to be more open and vulnerable, and I started thinking… maybe it will help me to share what’s happening, and not just to share it publicly and stop “hiding” but to give myself a way to process through it instead of just being on autopilot and trying to hang on.
So I brought back monthly income reports in October of 2023, and I’m personally so, so glad I did, and I hear from you guys that you LOVE them too.
And I’m really glad you love them as much as I do… because they take me FOREVER to write! Which is why in this episode, I’m actually bringing you a February and March combo income report – because I just didn’t have the capacity to produce an income report in February – which is actually a lesson learned that I’ll talk about a bit later.
So like I said, I’ll be sharing with you what happened in business and life in February and March, how much we made and spent and all the lessons learned along the way.
Important Things That Happened in February and March
Honestly, it feels like the ONLY thing I did in February and March was work on the Simply Profitable Designer Summit – which we hosted March 18th – 22nd, and the Web Designer Academy Open House and Open Enrollment which was March 21st – April 5th.
I did go snow-tubing with my husband and niece one weekend, and I’m the ONLY one who enjoyed it… they were like, yes, Shannon, you can go again, we’ll be down here waiting for you… I went and stayed with my Grandma for a few nights while my mom and stepdad went on vacation, because she lives with them and while she gets around pretty well for 88, we don’t like her to be home alone overnight, and we had a blast, she told me old stories, I made Girl Dinner for us, and saved her from a tornado… well, it got really close but didn’t hit us, so I didn’t have to save her, but I would have… Let’s see, what else… randomly interviewed for a new job and was offered a position and accepted it, he had lots of feelings about only being at his current job for a year since we come from the era of “stay at your job forever, don’t be a job hopper, it looks bad on your resume” and he’s starting to realize that’s not true anymore so it feels safer to him to go for the career moves he really wants, which is cool…
So that’s the personal life stuff that I did when I wasn’t working on the Summit…
You guys, the Summit was awesome. Halfway through, I’m like… can we fit another one in in the fall? I don’t think I can, but it was that amazing.
I mean, we got incredible feedback from our attendees, from our speakers, I was blown away by the presentations, especially the ones on AI which I’m applying to some of my internal operations, so much engagement, and I’m like THIS is what it’s all about.
Yes, I love teaching and coaching and working so closely with our students in the WDA, but I also LOVE facilitating events like that, bringing all the people together. After some of the speaker panels, especially the one on Failing Forward, I Slacked my team member Erica and I was like, “How can I do more of THAT?” I love having deep, connected, meaningful conversations, and when they help other people too? That’s a win-win-win.
So the entire week of the Summit was incredible, and like I said, it’s ALL I worked on from the last week of January through Summit week.
Like, looking at my calendar, it was business as usual in terms of marketing and running the Web Designer Academy, but outside of that, my sole focus was on building out the Summit website, coordinating with all 35 speakers to get their presentations and Designer Power Pack contributions, getting all that content loaded into the website in what felt like 500 different places, swapping out the e-commerce because I can no longer use tools that integrate with Stripe, writing all the marketing copy and coordinating promotion with our speakers, like, all the things.
And that was pretty much all I did, every day, for 7 weeks. And listen, I’m not complaining. It’s one of my strengths to be able to take a huge project like this with a million moving parts and hard deadlines and make it happen.
My role at my day job prepared me really well for it, and my experience as a web designer makes it so all the tech is a breeze. I don’t have kids, I’m alone all day except for my doggo Scarlett, I can focus for long periods of time, I can see the big picture and the little details, I can plan timelines, follow through on deadlines, and stay on top of all of the communication and coordination to make it happen.
But here’s where I totally get in my own way, and where doing it the way I did it showed me areas of opportunity for growth, if you will:
When I plan projects like this, I don’t plan for other people to help me.
I have a part-time employee on my team, and she’s amazing, and she’d do anything I’d ask her to do, and she’s 1000% capable of learning whatever new skill she needs to learn to do it.
I work with a consultant who helps with customer journey and conversions, and who’s goal is to help us generate new leads, and help us move them closer to working with us inside our programs through experimentation and data, rather than hunches and whims.
And here’s what happened: I planned the whole project, I delegated graphics and putting together the Summit workbook and coordinating the live speaker panels to Erica, and maybe a few other things…
Both my consultant, Leigh and Erica continuously said, “Let us know how we can help…” and I’m like, “With what? I’m basically just doing VA work, data entry. Your contract is for way different stuff.” And I did the same thing with Erica, I’m like, oof, I’m already asking you to do a lot of stuff outside your ROLE as Client Success Coordinator, I don’t want to overstep.”
And they kept asking me how they could help, and I kept being like, all the stuff I’m doing isn’t your job… I’ve got it handled. I’m a time and planning ninja, time is never a reason I don’t get something done.
And it’s so strange, because as it’s happening, I could start to see the problem, but I couldn’t fully understand or articulate it at the time…
It’s not like I didn’t have the TIME to do all the things I was doing. I did. And I didn’t feel overwhelmed by the list.
But what I did feel was EXHAUSTED. Like, mentally tired, and physically tired, like, my eyes would be really, really tired, and I had a hard time making decisions, I’d do a lot of overthinking, like, if it wasn’t already on the list and decided on ahead of time and planned for, if it came up later, I just didn’t have the capacity to think about it. I had too many tabs open in my brain, and my brain was TIRED. It’s physically and mentally hard to make decisions with a tired brain, and then my brain had to work even harder to make decisions, hence the overthinking.
And what I realized was that if I literally do not have the TIME, I’m fine to ask for help.
But if I physically have the time available to me, I don’t want to “burden” others or overstep boundaries. I teach our students SO much about setting and holding boundaries in the Web Designer Academy since its one of the keys to a sustainable business, that I didn’t realize how much I’m like “Well I don’t wanna be the person who oversteps!!”
What the production of the Simply Profitable Designer Summit showed me though is that planning for other people to help isn’t about time, it’s about CAPACITY, and having the mental and physical energy to make decisions, to think clearly, to do other things – like the Web Designer Academy Open House and Open Enrollment.
Like, I do a lot of things in my business that require zero mental capacity. Managing my own inbox – easy. Don’t have to think about it, zero drama over it, not overwhelming to me at all. Producing and publishing my podcast – easy. And even easier now that I’m creating a custom GPT to help me turn transcripts into show notes that sound like me thanks to presentations at the Simply Profitable Designer Summit.
But those were the types of things I’d always tried to delegate before because that’s what “THE EXPERTS” say to do, and then I’d keep the things that just required more mental capacity and time, like, designing slides for presentations, which takes me forever because I’m not a designer, or writing sales emails or other funnel emails, and setting up all the funnels and doing the tech, because I technically know HOW to do these things, but there’s a lot of thinking involved.
And with the Summit, I had the realization that time wasn’t my problem, capacity was my problem, and my overusing my capacity the way I was, I was shutting down my highest level of thinking, and my highest level of thinking is actually what is my MOST valuable asset. Because when I’m overthinking, I start overdoing, and that actually slows down and delays progress.
So these realizations didn’t happen linearly, and I’m processing this in hindsight, but as the realizations started happening I said to the people who were asking to help me, like “How about you tell me what you’d LIKE to help with, and I’ll hand that over to you.”
Like, that was my brain’s solution at the time to the problem of “I don’t want to overstep or be the worst boss or client ever.”
And then… I have the realization that with the success of the Summit, I’m about to add 2500 NEW people to my email list, and I have not planned for it AT ALL. Like, that’s one of the reasons to host a summit, to grow our audience, and I needed a bridge from Shannon Mattern Summit Host to Shannon Mattern Web Designer Business Coach.
And that’s when I had the other realization of actually, I’m not the best person to write these emails. EVEN IF I didn’t have all this other stuff going on… this is one of those places where it makes sense to hire someone while I’m over here just pushing the buttons on producing the podcast or the summit or whatever.
And so I not only hired WDA student and genius copywriter Sarah Guilliot to write the emails, I asked Leigh and Erica if they would coordinate that whole project for me.
THAT was a huge step for me, friends. To be completely hands off. But you know what, those 3 people are the exact right three people to ask for help – all of them are WDA students, their zones of genius are copy, conversions and a deep insider knowledge of how we help our students, and it was like… they know just as much as me, if not MORE because they’ve been in the shoes of our students in a way I never have – meaning, they made the decision to enroll in our program at some point and know what that’s like on a deep level.
And that’s when I was like OH, THIS is what I get to “delegate” going forward, not the little stuff.
And to be fully transparent, I was doing all the things because I’m also really protective of our cash flow.
I laid off a full-time employee back in October like I talked about in my October Income report, a very tough but necessary decision. And while it feels like forever ago, it was only 6 months ago.
And the only reason I was able to hire Sarah to write those nurture emails was because registrations and ticket sales for the Summit exceeded my expectations, and it felt like it would be a worthwhile investment to make if I was gonna put all this time and resources into hosting the Summit to also intentionally build relationships with the Summit attendees and let them know more about how we can serve them with this podcast, and our programs and all the things.
It felt like it would be a huge missed opportunity to NOT do it, and it felt like if I did it, I’d be doing it with too many tabs open in my brain, and it would not have been nearly as brilliant as what Sarah G. was able to write for me.
So that was a win, and then later on, my team member Erica was basically like, “I will help you with WHATEVER you need help with, but because I don’t know what you have going on, I don’t know what to offer to help with, so how about YOU just ask, and I will tell you yes or no.”
And I’m like, DEAL… and I have another presentation coming up for the Page Builder Summit in May, and I’m like this is perfect, I’ve written the presentation, I’m gonna ask Erica to design the slides. She’s an instructional designer and a graphic designer, so it’s in her wheelhouse, right?
Again, I’m noticing that I’m being real compartmentaliz-y – like, I can ONLY ask her to do things that are in her job description… even though she’s so invested in everything we’re doing and loves to dive in and learn new things…
And then she gives me the first draft, and I immediately notice myself not wanting to give her feedback, and just wanting to take it and “finish” it from there. Which is a pattern for me. And I’m like no, just tell her you’re feeling some type of way about giving feedback, and give her the feedback.
I was thinking things like, I’m being nitpicky, I’m ungrateful, I don’t want her to be annoyed with me – and on Erica’s side, she’s like, this is a first draft, I NEED your feedback so that I can understand what you want, and it might take us a few rounds this time, but next time I do a presentation for you, we’ll be more on the same page.
And I’m like OMG, thank you so much for kindly and gently leading me through the process of giving you feedback and making it feel SAFE for me to do it. And listen, I know I’m the “boss”, like I’m supposed to be the leader, but she’s a leader too, we’re a team, and she totally steps into that role with me when she sees that I need guidance in areas that she excels, and I’m so grateful for that – because it allowed me to see how much I was judging myself, and being like, well, I don’t want to ask for what I want in case you think a certain kind of way about me – but in reality, I’m just projecting onto you what I really think about MYSELF, so I’ll just do things that drain my capacity so I don’t have to deal with what’s really going on.
And it all goes back to what my friend and mindset coach Alecia St. Germain coaches on, and it’s part of the work we do in the Next Level Mastermind – we uncover what’s called your BIG ASSUMPTION, which is a core belief you operate by that keeps you safe up to a point, but then actually starts to get in your way and keeps you stuck as you start to move out of your comfort zone.
And my big assumption is that if people don’t like me, I could lose everything.
No wonder I don’t want to risk “giving feedback”.
Once you know your big assumption, you’ll see how it shows up EVERYWHERE, and it’s so powerful to know it, see it, and take actions to disprove and dismantle it so you CAN get to the next level.
I see it all the time – people come into the WDA, they implement our strategies, they start getting new projects, at higher prices than ever – they start having success, and it pushes right up on their big assumption, whatever it is, and so they fall back into old patterns of people-pleasing, overdelivering and dropping their boundaries – whatever it is they do to feel safe.
And so the conversations in our Next Level Mastermind are different… they’re like, I have everything I thought I wanted… why am I struggling so much? Do I even really want it? I think I want more, but it can’t happen if things stay how they are now.
I go through it too, I have coaches to help me, and I love helping you guys with that too.
So anyway, huge realizations about asking for help and feedback and how I spend my time that I’ll be looking at I’m sure more closely over the next few months, because I’m realizing that doing more, more, more is having diminishing returns, if not negative returns – and it’s not sustainable on all fronts.
Because what the Summit reminded my of is how passionate I am about helping web designers, especially women web designers, make a full-time living doing something they love in a way that is profitable and sustainable for them. And seeing THOUSANDS of them come together in one place at one time to learn new strategies and skills was so rewarding to me, and being the one to get to facilitate it was like, ahhhh, yes, this is why I do this, why I choose to make my own living doing this, with all of its ups and downs, vs. going to work for someone else.
It’s our goal to serve a hundred women web designers in the Web Designer Academy this year, and it’s about figuring out what’s working and doing more of that, coming up with theories of things to test, gathering data, analyzing and testing more, not just blindly trying thing after thing after thing.
And in January, I shared with you that we started a couple of new experiments – a 30-day trial period before committing to the full year in our program, and the launch of our Profitable Web Designer Premium podcast – which shows people what it’s like to be coached by us, and I came up with those experiments because my friend Dr. Lee Cordell of the Institute for Trauma and Psychological Safety shared with me that people have 3 core needs that must be met in order to make a decision to buy – and this applies to your web design clients’ buying decisions just as much as it applies to our students’ decision to join the Web Designer Academy, so this is really, really important to know:
The first core need is RESOURCES: Time, Information, Money and Energy. Those are the basics that are pretty obvious, most people focus on those the most when it comes to sales.
The second core need is PSYCHOLOGICAL SAFETY: Like, not only do I trust YOU, can I trust myself to follow through on my end, and is it safe to do this. Is it safe to work with you, is it safe in your community, and is it safe in MY community? Like, how will my tribe and the people closest to me react to me doing this?
And the third core need is AUTONOMY, or choice. What choices or options are available to me? Do I have freedom after making this decision?
I’ll be doing an entire podcast episode on these 3 core needs and how they apply to sales in your web design business…
But what I realized in January is that while we do an awesome job of making sure our WDA students have those boxes checked with THEIR offers and how we teach them to package, price, market, sell and deliver THEIR services…
I definitely saw some opportunities for us to do better in meeting those 3 core needs in terms of how we were marketing and selling the Web Designer Academy.
So in January, we added the 30-day trial to check the Autonomy box – our program is a year long, but you can come in for a month, and if after a month it’s not for you, you can leave, and you just pay for the month you were in the program. Sustainable for us, autonomy for you, win-win.
I started the Profitable Web Designer Premium Podcast to check the box of Psychological Safety – what happens on the inside, what’s coaching like, do you vibe with me and trust me, do you vibe with the community, our values and how we run it?
In February I put together a Program Guide and added it to the top of the Web Designer Academy application page which outlined the entire program in detail, including the modules, the format, the time investment and the financial investment – which we used to just share with people AFTER we accepted their application, before they made the decision to enroll.
If you want to get your hands on that program guide, you can just go to WebDesignerAcademy.com/Apply and click the link at the top of the page, you don’t even need to enter an email address to get it.
That guide was designed to check the boxes of Time and Information.
We also hosted an Open House during the Simply Profitable Designer Summit where I talked about the details of the program and kicked off an open enrollment period where I tested out some promotional pricing I’ve never offered before to see if that would check the Money box for people – and we put that replay on the Application page so people can watch that and get all the program details up front BEFORE applying.
Will that create less applications, more applications? Less enrollments, more enrollments? I don’t know, I’ll let you know! But what I do know is that students who are enrolling are reporting that those things were important their decision, so I feel like we’re on the right track.
I’ll share with you the results of that open enrollment promotion in my April Income report, so keep an eye out for that – and we have some other creative ideas to test to check the Money + Energy boxes… like, how can we provide some trainings that will equip you to overcome some of your biggest hurdles to letting us help you – your belief that it will actually work for you, that you can do it, etc. by giving you some bite-sized trainings ahead of time designed to help you create quick wins, stuff like that.
Because I get it’s a big decision, things are different now than they were in 2020 and 2021 where we were all stuck at home with disposable income and nowhere to go… things cost more, you want to do more things, and you gotta be more certain than ever that this is what you want and it will work for you vs. back in the day where you were like, Hey, let’s try it, what have I got to lose? Like, the stakes FEEL higher now, so we want to make sure you have what you need to make the decision.
And listen, things feel that way for your clients too, and we’ve always given our students everything they need to check the boxes of the 3 core needs with their offers to their clients, so we teach you how to do that… but even I can’t see the outside of my business from the inside. I think I’m doing the things, but it turns out I’m not, and I need that outside perspective for myself.
So those were the biggest things that happened in February and March, and as I’m writing this in April, I’m just trying to give myself some space to slow down, mentally recharge, which I totally have at this point, but just really make some thoughtful, intentional decisions on what’s next based on everything I’ve learned in Q1.
With all of that, I’ll wrap up with the numbers:
Combined Income Report for February & March
Revenue:
- February Revenue: $8,070.26 (mostly recurring revenue from Web Designer Academy payment plans)
- March Revenue: $30,589.00 (includes $24,637 from ticket sales for the Simply Profitable Designer Summit)
Investments:
- February Expenses: $13,408.00
- March Expenses: $18,305.51 (does not include payouts to summit affiliates or the previous owner, which were paid in April)
Net Profit:
- February Net Profit: -$5,337.74
- March Net Profit: $12,284.29
In February, our revenue was $8070.26 – and that’s recurring revenue from Web Designer Academy payment plans. February’s typically like that, the big whoosh of enrollments comes in December, and January and February generally are payment plans, and then we do the Summit and open enrollment in March, and get another whoosh. But we’re always doing evergreen enrollment, and I’ll be testing out promotional pricing for evergreen enrollment since spoiler alert, the test was successful – meaning, apply any time, whether we’re doing an open enrollment or not and if you enroll within X days of applying, you’ll get the promotional pricing – because our program is so personalized, it doesn’t matter if you enroll during our open enrollments or on a Tuesday in February. So we’re working on ways to grow enrollments between open enrollments just to increase that revenue to our minimum baseline of $15K a month.
We also started tracking another metric, monthly rolling revenue, and as long as that’s averaging $15k a month over the past 6 months, we’re in good shape, because it accounts for those whoosh’s of money that cover our $15k of monthly expenses – $10k of that is mine and Erica’s salary and payroll taxes, I’m full time and she’s part time, and the other $5k is operations – all the tools we use to run the business, all the services we need to operate, like accounting, bookkeeping, legal, etc. our podcast production, the consulting with Leigh, all of those things.
So Revenue in February, $8070.26, Expenses = $13408 for a net profit of NEGATIVE -5337.74
In March, our revenue was $30,589 including $24,637 of ticket sales for the Simply Profitable Designer Summit. Our expenses were $18,305.51 which DID NOT include all the Affiliate Payouts, paying out half the profit to the previous owner of the Summit – I’ll break those down in my April Income report because the payouts happened in April. It DOES the copywriting I mentioned, and our salaries and those other expenses, for a net profit of $12,284.29 – and SPOILER ALERT, all of that and then some went to paying affiliates and Krista.
Before I move on to March income report, I wanna share with you a question I was asked by one of the members of our Next Level Mastermind about how I stay motivated when my numbers don’t look how I’d like them to look…
And I wanted to share my candid answer with you in case it helps…
“You said you listened to my January income report and would love to hear my thoughts about how it feels knowing you're in the negative and how you carry that while staying positive and showing up for us going forward. So my January income report, I think. Like my monthly profit was negative, like $6 ,000 or something.
Um, but the way I, I mean, and I think in December we made like $35 ,000. So the way I look at my cashflow is like, I know what my operating expenses are every single month. I made more than my operating expenses in December and less than my operating expenses in January, plus whatever like I have in the bank to cover that cashflow. So even though it's like, a negative on paper in terms of like when the day of the month opens and closes.
It's just a measurement, I guess I would say. Like, I'm just like, this is a measurement of the goings on between the state and the state. And it's showing me like where my work is. So if I'm like, or like, I don't know how to explain it. So, do I want my revenue to match up with my expenses every single month? Yes, that's the goal. That's how my business was running for many years until last spring and Stripe and different situations knocked my nervous system of of whack and pushed on my big assumption that like I've identified in my work with Alicia is that I could lose everything.
It's just that fear is always there and just kind of knowing that like, it's just the way my brain's going to react and just be like, okay, you can go sit over there. I don't need you. I don't need you right now. I've done it before. I can do it again. There's always more on the way. And another thing that Alicia and I have been like talking about is she's like, you've got to stop thinking that resources equal freedom.
She's like, resilience is what equals freedom. And if you tie…
If, if freedom is one of your core values and you tie freedom to the, what your bank account balance says every single month.
You are, it's like a, it's a fallacy. Like your freedom comes from your ability to be resilient in all circumstances. So I don't know if that answers your question, but that's like really how I think, like, I think very logically about it. Like we need to get more applications and close more sales and do the things that we need to do to do that. And then I think very mindset -y about it where I'm just like…
There's always more on the way. There's more to do here. There's more things to try. I've planted a lot of seeds. Like it'll be fine. So I don't know. And also.
I mean, don't tell anybody, but I do it for free. If I didn't have this group to come and lead, I don't know that it would feel as easy.It would probably feel really like lonely and I don't, I think I would have changed to something else a long time ago if I didn't feel like it was like like the challenges I'm going through are doing anybody any good. It's like worth persisting because I know it helps other people. So That's how I feel about, that's how I can continue to show up, I guess, to answer that question very candidly. I'm curious, like.
What marks are you setting for yourself?
Like are, I'm just going to like directly ask this question. Cause I don't know what a different way to answer. Are you like setting yourself up to never win? Like, are you setting unreal, like not unrealistic goals, like huge goals that are unnecessary or are they like realistic goals that are necessary?
Like if we set ourselves up to never, if the way we set goals, sets ourselves up to never reach them. And then all we do is tell the story. And I'm not saying that you don't want to make more money. I'm just saying like what our brain does is you're, you're negative, you're negative, you're negative. You haven't gotten there. You haven't gotten there. That would be so hard to keep persisting instead of like,
I, I'm only a thousand away and really showing yourself like the actions I've taken resulted in this. I'm going to continue to do more of that instead of what we see people do at this point where it gets hard is the relief comes from jumping into another course program system process. Like the answers over here somewhere when the answer is to maintain the momentum that you've created.
Which sucks and it takes patience and a lot of trust and a lot of resilience, but it also takes telling yourself the truth about your efforts, which is you are doing things and they are creating results and you do know how to do it and it is working.
And I have a weird relationship with goals too, where I'm like, why am I just picking some arbitrary random thing and then making myself worth means something when I hit that number or not. And I'm still working this out with Alicia, cause she's just like, you have a really bad relationship with goals. And I'm like, I know because I don't ever reach them. I'm like, I say I want these things, but it's like,
Do I really, do I really, if I'm not willing to do the things required to get them or other people have to comply? And that's where I have a tricky relationship with it too. It's like, I need you to do something for me to reach my goal. How is that even in my control?
Yeah, so you had the same thing. There's something there. Go ahead. I had the same conversation with Alicia, the retreat talking about goals. It's like, why, why said him if, if it's up to outside forces, whether I make it or not. I know I'm fighting the. Looking for something different or something else that affects, you know, when.
just doing normal stuff and you get a financial hit. I got a financial hit on taxes and it's like, oh boy, but I'm like, it's gonna come, it's gonna come, doing the things, so it will come.
The other thing about like, so, so the like money is like the amount of money you make as a result. It's not necessarily a goal. The amount of clients you book as a result, it's not necessarily a goal. Like if the way I need to think about goals is like they are in my control. So the only goal I can set is to reach out to this number of people, you know, and I am in control of whether or not I do that then I have to just measure the results of what happens when I achieve my goals. And then it's like, oh, I have the data that if I reach out to know people, I get no clients. If I reach out to 10, I get one. If I, you know, that type of thing, and then it just gives you the data to like be able to adjust what you're spending your time and energy on. If you're like, oh, I spoke at this event and it got me, this many clients, like maybe I need to go find more of those. Like if you, like if it's just about money, there's so many easier ways to make like to go make money, like a job, like just clock in clock out. And there's reasons we, we all don't do that. So I think it's also the other thing to just kind of leave you with is just like, get back to the core. Why of why you're doing this when you're starting to feel like nothing's working because it has to be worth it to you to persist through this difficult spot.”
… So the bottom line – it’s all about managing your mind so that you have the energy to keep moving forward.
If you’re constantly thinking nothing is working, I’m the only one going through this, I already tried that and it didn’t work, and you’re hustling hustling hustling and not giving yourself support and working on the wrong things, and not figuring out how to persist through the impatience, you’re gonna burn out.
But if you have a strong why, you can be patient, and you’re willing to really be honest about the money you NEED to make vs. WANT to make, and you’re willing to make tough decisions in pursuit of your goals, it’s totally, totally worth it.
So to wrap up my March income report, I filed my taxes in March too, and it was a really complicated tax year due to the fraud stuff that happened to me last year and the revenue losses, so I’m so, so grateful to Nacondra Moran of Exceptional Tax Services for guiding me through that.
And then next month, I’ll be back to tell you the results of our Open Enrollment, because April 2024 is the one-year anniversary of when all the challenges really started for us in 2023, and it’s just really cool to see how it’s all coming back together after going through all that.
So that’s it for my February and March Income reports, I hope you heard something that help you, and I’d love, love, love if you could take a sec to leave us a rating and review, it helps this podcast get in front of more people who need it, and I’ll see you right back here next week! Bye!
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