If you're like most web designers, you've probably had a moment (or several) where you've looked at your business and thought, “Something’s not working here.” Maybe you're overwhelmed. Maybe you're undercharging. Maybe you’re delivering so much value but still not seeing the kind of income or freedom you expected when you started. I’ve been there—more than once.
When I look back at my business journey and the things that I thought to be true and were conditioned to believe as a web designer – and a woman web designer – and a service provider and a business owner, etc., and I deconstruct those things I thought I had to do to create the life and the freedom and the financial freedom that I wanted to create – it feels like I'm thinking about a totally different person.
And it feels that way because I decided I was open to thinking and believing new things about myself, and I want you to allow yourself to experience the transformation of going from how you might think things have to work or how you might think things are to truly transform your beliefs about what's possible for you as a freelance web designer.
Because I was thinking about this, especially as women, but as service providers and former employees and all of this stuff, we are conditioned to be of service, to take care of others, to take care of customers and clients.
We're conditioned to believe that we get paid by the hour, that we're worth only so much per hour based on how long we've been doing it – or that our worth is all about us and our experience and what someone else tells us a role is worth or a job is worth.
And when you take those things that we've been conditioned to believe in our society and combine them with being a business owner, what ends up happening is you get someone who is massively undercharging and over-delivering and burnt out, and it's completely unsustainable.
That was my lived experience. Almost everything I learned about how to operate safely in this world is incompatible with being a business owner. And I had to unwind that and reset that and deconstruct that. And so that's why I hosted the Revenue Reset Challenge – to walk you through that process of figuring out what your beliefs are about what you're capable of – and do you want to keep them?
Are they creating the results that you want? If they are creating the results that you want, awesome. How can we do more of that? If they're not creating the results that you want? Awesome, how can we shift what we think about and how we believe to create the results that we want? How might our potential clients be thinking and how can we guide them to think in ways that serve them instead of kind of being enrolled in thinking that doesn't serve them – and put it all into action to create the results we really want.
Because sometimes, the most profitable thing you can do isn’t push harder—it’s pause, reflect, and reset.
Your next level doesn’t require you to do more. It asks you to become more you.
Because here’s the thing: even after years of growth, I still catch myself stuck in old ways of thinking—patterns that I didn’t even realize were there. And that’s part of the journey. Whether you’re just starting or you’ve been in it for years, there are always beliefs to examine and shift so you can take your business to the next level.
That’s exactly why I created the Revenue Reset Challenge:
- Part 1: Turn Your Mindtrash Into Gold
- Part 2: Transform Your Pricing Paradigm
- Part 3: Confident Money Conversations
The Revenue Reset Challenge was originally hosted live back in September 2023, and it was transformational for everyone who participated. Get the original replays and workbook here.
Let's kick things off with a Mind Trash Makeover.
What is “mind trash” and why does it matter?
We all have thoughts and beliefs—many we don’t even realize we’re carrying around—that shape how we run our businesses. Things like:
- I can’t charge that much.
- Clients won’t pay me more until I have more experience.
- I work with people who can’t afford to pay more.
- My packages are still a work in progress, so I’m not ready to raise prices.
These thoughts may feel like facts, but they’re not. They’re beliefs—and if they’re not creating the results you want, it’s time to examine them. That’s what we call “mind trash”—and around here, we LOVE finding it because that’s where the gold is. When you notice it, you can start shifting it.
Step 1: Know your numbers
We’re not about vanity metrics like six-figure businesses or five-figure projects. Your business is as unique as you are—and so are your financial needs. That’s why we start with what I call your Minimum Baseline Revenue. It’s the amount of money your business needs to generate each month to be sustainable—for you.
To find your Minimum Baseline Revenue, add these three numbers together:
- What you want to pay yourself each month
- Your monthly business expenses (tools, subscriptions, training, subcontractors, etc.)
- Your estimated taxes (I recommend 20–25% of your pay in the U.S.—this is not legal or tax advice!)
That total is your Minimum Baseline Revenue. Then, compare it to how much your business currently makes each month. What’s the gap?
Once you know the gap, ask yourself: at your current pricing, how many more clients would you need to close that gap?
Step 2: Notice your thoughts
This is where the mind trash starts to pile up—thoughts like:
- No one will pay that.
- I’m not experienced enough to charge that.
- Clients will question the value.
- I’ll never book another project if I raise my prices.
It’s okay to feel that way. You're not doing anything wrong. These are the exact thoughts we get to examine and shift in this challenge. You’re not expected to just flip a switch and change your price tomorrow. We baby-step our way to believing it’s possible first—then we align our actions from that place.
And it’s not always about raising prices. You get to decide intentionally how your business is structured. Sometimes, it’s about adjusting your scope or improving efficiency so you can do more with less. There are two sides to the equation: money and time. Your revenue reset might be about reclaiming your time just as much as it is about increasing your income.
Action Steps
Take some time to answer these questions:
- How much money does your business make per month, on average?
- How much do you want to pay yourself?
- How much are your monthly business expenses?
- How much do you want to set aside for taxes?
- What is your Minimum Baseline Revenue (add the last three numbers)?
- What is the gap between your current revenue and your Minimum Baseline?
- At your current pricing, how many more clients would you need to close that gap?
- If I told you that you had to change your price to match your Minimum Baseline right now… what comes up for you?
Write it all down. Word vomit style. Don’t filter it. Let all the thoughts out—because that’s where we start to see the patterns. That’s where the transformation begins.
Turning Mindtrash Into Gold
Now you'll take it a step further and walk through how to actually make over those thoughts so you can finally create the outcomes you want. This is the magic of turning your mind trash into gold.
The sneaky way thoughts create your results
Here’s how it works: You have a thought. That thought creates a feeling in your body. That feeling drives you to either take an action—or not take an action. And that action (or inaction) creates your result. So technically, your actions create your results, but those actions are always driven by how you feel, which is always driven by what you’re thinking.
If the thought creates fear, anxiety, or self-doubt, your nervous system is going to respond. You might feel pressure in your chest, get sweaty palms, or start overthinking everything. And your brain’s not broken—it’s just doing its job. That’s your nervous system kicking into survival mode: fight, flight, freeze, or fawn.
How those responses show up in business
- Fight: Overworking, saying yes to every client, burning yourself out to prove your worth.
- Flight: Scrapping your website again, pivoting your niche, hiding behind “perfecting” your offer.
- Freeze: Stalling, avoiding your inbox, not posting, not selling, disappearing from your business.
- Fawn: People-pleasing, undercharging, ignoring red flags, customizing everything to keep clients happy.
And this is the cycle that keeps you stuck—because when you're operating from fear, your highest-level thinking is offline. Creativity? Intuition? Strategy? Gone. You’re just trying to survive.
My real-life example of mind trash
Let me give you a peek behind the scenes. I host an in-person retreat every year for our Next Level students, and I noticed I was procrastinating planning the food and vendor logistics. At first, I didn’t know why—I just knew I was spinning out and wasting time. Once I looked closer, I saw the thought: “I’m going to screw this up.”
That thought created pressure, fear, and a huge feeling of inadequacy. I felt like an imposter. I imagined everyone being disappointed. So what did I do? I avoided the task completely. If I hadn’t recognized that thought and shifted it, I probably would’ve waited until the last minute, stressed myself out, and risked things actually going sideways. My actions would have created the exact result I was afraid of.
The Mind Trash Makeover Process
This is the exact process I use for myself (and that I coach our Web Designer Academy students through) to shift those sneaky thoughts and create new results:
- Notice what you're doing or not doing. Are you avoiding something, procrastinating, overworking?
- Name the feeling behind the action. Is it pressure, fear, overwhelm, shame?
- Identify the thought driving that feeling. What are you believing that's triggering that emotion?
- Ask: What evidence do I have that this thought is false? Or: What else could be true?
- Create a bridge thought. Something like, “I’m willing to try and see what happens” or “Maybe this isn’t true.”
- Calm your nervous system. The goal isn’t to jump to “I’m amazing and everything is perfect”—it’s to create just enough relief to think clearly and take action.
- Take one small step. What would I do if I felt calm and capable?
For me, the bridge thought was, “I didn’t screw it up last year.” I remembered I’d planned events for 400+ people in my corporate job. No one starved. And if someone’s disappointed? I can handle that. I don’t have to be perfect. I just have to ask for help, make a decision, and move forward.
You can use this for anything
You can use this process for anything in your business: pricing, marketing, sales, copywriting, niching, creating packages. The goal isn’t to lie to yourself or fake confidence—it’s to shift your thoughts just enough that your brain doesn’t go into panic mode. It’s how you go from “I know what to do, but I’m not doing it,” to actually doing it.
Here are a few bridge thoughts I love:
- “I just don’t think like that anymore.”
- “Maybe none of this is true.”
- “I’m willing to try and see what happens.”
- “If they can do it, I can do it too.”
- “This doesn’t have to be forever. It’s just for now.”
You don’t have to go from “I’ll starve if I raise my prices” to “I’m charging $10K websites” overnight. You just need to take a small step toward a belief that serves you better—and repeat it often enough that your brain starts to believe it, too.
So, what’s your next step?
If you’ve been procrastinating, overcomplicating, avoiding, or people-pleasing, it’s not because you’re lazy or unmotivated. It’s because your brain is doing exactly what it’s supposed to do when it perceives danger.
Now you have the tools to interrupt that pattern. You can notice the thought, name the feeling, find a better one, and act from there. You don’t have to wait until you believe it 100%—you just have to be willing to try something different.
So go ahead and identify one mind trashy thought that’s been keeping you stuck. Then take it through this process. You’ll be amazed what happens when you stop believing everything your brain tells you—and start choosing what to think on purpose.